seriously?

so i went shopping last night and got a cute table cloth, plates, napkins, little stuff for aidan and cupcake stuff . i really wanted to make v-day fun! and than romantic later on for hubby and me. its aidans first vday with daddy home so i thought we could decorate cupcakes together! i asked sean if he would wake up early instead of sleeping all day to do it with us ! and he said to me me "what do you mean wake up early i probably wont be home till 3am cuz i have a jump sunday and i have to pack for WLC cause i leave tuesday." well there goes valentines day....... i know its only valentines day but still, even when he is home and not deployed we still cant seem to do something....it's just so upsetting.